• SEX WITH A MARRIED WOMAN

    SEX WITH A MARRIED WOMAN

    from the Introduction to the book… SEX WITH A MARRIED WOMAN: A Man’s Guide to Loving His Wife  is about how a man can have great sex with a married woman, the girl of his dreams—his wife—all his life, in the marriage of his dreams. Sex between two married people who love each other does [...]

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  • Robert Mark Alter

    Robert Mark Alter

    Robert Mark Alter was born in Cambridge, Massachusetts and grew up in Newton.  He went to Cornell University.  He is a husband, father, grandfather, psychotherapist, marriage counselor, English teacher, big Boston sports fan, and writer.  He has also been a hockey referee. For inspiration he draws upon Henry David Thoreau, Bob Dylan, Lenny Bruce, Mahatma [...]

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  • Other Alter Books

    Other Alter Books

    GOOD HUSBAND, GREAT MARRIAGE: How to Find the Good Husband. . . in the Man You Married (Grand Central Publishing, 2007). GOOD HUSBAND, GREAT MARRIAGE is about what a man has to do to become a good husband, and what a woman can do to help her husband become one. It says that a man’s [...]

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  • Order the Book

    Order the Book

      For men who love their wives and love sex . . .For women who love their husbands and want a better marriage (and sex) . . .For anyone, male or female, who has ever complained or joked about the sorry state of sexuality in their marriage, and thinks that’s as good as it gets [...]

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  • Blog

    Blog

    What Makes a Marriage Work? Robert Alter knows that a man’s best shot at having a great marriage and a happy family is to become a good husband and he discusses how that happens in this video discussion with his wife Jane. Robert stresses what a man has to do to become a good husband, and Jane, what a woman can do to help her husband become one, thus creating a great marriage. Robert is also the author of Sex With a Married Woman, A Man’s Guide to Loving his Wife. Read more about good marriage on this blog.

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SEX WITH A MARRIED WOMAN

from the Introduction to the book…

SEX WITH A MARRIED WOMAN: A Man’s Guide to Loving His Wife  is about how a man can have great sex with a married woman, the girl of his dreams—his wife—all his life, in the marriage of his dreams.

Sex between two married people who love each other does not have to be quick, cursory, meager, dull, or infrequent.  Good, exciting sex doesn’t have to disappear from a marriage after the first year of your marriage, or the first three years, or ten years, or the first thirty or forty years.  The sex can be fun and frequent and thrilling all the way through—if you get the sex right—which means you have to get the marriage right.

This can happen in your marriage because you, the husband, have it within your power to make it happen.

If you, the husband, give your wife what she, the woman, wants from you—which is caring, kindness, companionship, connection, attention, security, sexuality, and fidelity—she will give you what you as a man want from her, which, give or take a few other things, is sex.  If you become the husband she wants you to be—if you give her the love she wants from you in the forms she wants it—she, being a woman, will give you the love you want from her in the forms you want it.  That includes the sexual form of her love.  And not only will she give you sex, she’ll want sex—with you!—a lifetime of great sex that will knock your socks off.

That’s the message, and that’s a lot of socks.

You’re a man and a good man and a married man and you want to have sex with the woman you’re married to.  You want to have fun with your wife all your life.  You want to know how you can love her.

Of course you do.

Turn the page.

Go for it.


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